Feeling sad, angry, resenting life, or grieving the good old days or what you used to do. This episode might be just coming at the right time for you.
Sadness
As a caregiver, you’re at risk for depression. Sometimes you feel hopeless or helpless. You cab't sleep and have trouble facing the day.
You're human and it's normal to feel sad. It’s normal to get down. But like I said last week, in episode 30, you can’t stay there. It can lead to depression, health issues, and caregiver stress, burnout and compassion fatigue. Get my free resource on caregiver stress
Anger
Resentment. When put in a situation not of our choosing, it’s not uncommon to feel negative and resentful.
It's easy to forget about the good things that have happened or are happening when you only focus on the negative.
Staying in resentment changes who you...
Have you said one of these statements?
For caregivers, feelings isolated and lonely is a common complaint I hear and what I experienced quite often myself and a lot during the holidays. You feel isolated and withdrawn from your family, friends and your daily routines. You most likely had to replace time with caregiving duties or you stay behind from activities since your spouse can’t go.
Some of my very dark, lonely days were
In a recent June 2020, National Center for Health article.
In a AARP report
This can lead to a withdrawal from social activities and relationships that you previously enjoyed. You may also find that you’re literally facing isolation.
I saw this in my Mom caring for my Dad back in 2017-2018. She didn’t leave his side much and I was over 250 miles away. The only interaction she had was by phone, an occasional visitor when my Dad was up to it and a quick run to the grocery store. The nights were the hardest.
I am sure lonely feels are present for you too.
So let’s...