As caregivers, the words we say to ourselves and others can significantly influence our overall well-being. In this blog post, we explore the profound impact words have on our mindset, energy, mood, and stress levels. We’ll also introduce the umbrella analogy to illustrate how positive thoughts and skills can protect us from the rain of negative thoughts.

Why It's Important to Think About Our Words

Self-Talk and Mindset The words we use in our self-talk can shape our beliefs and attitudes. Negative self-talk can lead to a negative mindset, while positive self-talk can foster a growth mindset. Think about waking up each day. You can say, “Ugh, another tough day,” or you can think, “It’s going to be a good day.” This simple shift can change your entire outlook.

Impact on Energy and Mood Words can either drain or boost our energy and mood. Negative words and phrases can make us feel exhausted and discouraged, whereas positive and affirming...

Toxic thinking can affect you more than you know. Negative thoughts rob you of joy and leave you hopeless for any positive outcome. 

Your pattern of thought influences the quality of your life (and your loved ones). Your thinking can also affect your health, sleep patterns, anxiety levels, and more.

When you recognize you're thinking toxic and it’s affecting your well-being, you can start practicing techniques to remove your toxic thoughts

How Toxic Is Your Thinking?
You declare your thoughts through words—sometimes in conversation with others and other times silently to yourself only. Whatever it may be, pay attention and listen to yourself. Do you find yourself saying these things to yourself or others?

• “I don’t have what it takes. I am not good enough.”
• “I am afraid that I will be______.”
• “I didn’t do it perfectly, so I’m a failure.”
• “What if I can’t finish in time?”
• “But I...