As caregivers, the words we say to ourselves and others can significantly influence our overall well-being. In this blog post, we explore the profound impact words have on our mindset, energy, mood, and stress levels. We’ll also introduce the umbrella analogy to illustrate how positive thoughts and skills can protect us from the rain of negative thoughts.

Why It's Important to Think About Our Words

Self-Talk and Mindset The words we use in our self-talk can shape our beliefs and attitudes. Negative self-talk can lead to a negative mindset, while positive self-talk can foster a growth mindset. Think about waking up each day. You can say, “Ugh, another tough day,” or you can think, “It’s going to be a good day.” This simple shift can change your entire outlook.

Impact on Energy and Mood Words can either drain or boost our energy and mood. Negative words and phrases can make us feel exhausted and discouraged, whereas positive and affirming...

Hey there, fellow caregiver! If you're reading this, chances are you're juggling a million things at once and feeling the weight of the world on your shoulders. I get it because I've been there too. Today, I want to share a simple yet powerful habit that has helped me find some much-needed relief and joy in my caregiving journey. It's called the "I'm so done with _______ and I'm so ready for ________" habit.

The Birth of a New Habit

Inspired by a segment I recently heard on Hoda and Jenna's show, I found myself nodding along as they shared their "I'm so done with..." lists. It struck a chord with me. As caregivers, we often carry around a lot of frustrations, worries, and pent-up emotions. Sometimes, we just need to let it all out. That's where this habit comes in.

Why It Works

1. Cathartic Release: Listing what you're "so done with" allows you to vent and acknowledge your frustrations without guilt or shame. It's like giving yourself permission to feel all those emotions...