E209: Journey of Love: A Decade of Caregivng with Laureen

 

When Laureen Wysocki took on the role of caregiver for her husband Kevin, who was diagnosed with young-onset dementia, her life took a dramatic turn. It became a journey not just of love and loss, but of immense personal growth, self-discovery, and a deeper understanding of resilience in the face of adversity. This podcast episode provides an intimate glimpse into the life of an opera singer who balances her career with the demands of caregiving, and it is as multifaceted as the roles she performs on stage.

Laureen's narrative is a powerful one, a blend of candid vulnerability and inspiring strength. As she recounts the challenges she has faced, we see the reflection of countless other caregivers who are navigating similar paths. The importance of self-care is a central theme, emphasized through her commitment to practices like gratitude, journaling, and maintaining a support network. These tools not only help her cope but also ensure she remains a steadfast source of support for her husband.

Moreover, Laureen's story touches on the delicate balance of providing care while also setting boundaries and clear communication, a lesson that many caregivers must learn. It's a dance of patience and love, of knowing when to step forward and when to step back. Through the podcast, we are reminded of the importance of accepting help, of the relief and reassurance that come from counseling and community support.

The episode goes on to highlight moments of connection and joy, which shine brightly against the backdrop of dementia's challenges. Laureen's account of a special Valentine's Day with Kevin serves as a poignant reminder that even in the midst of cognitive decline, there can be flashes of awareness, of shared love that transcends the disease. It is these moments that provide caregivers with the strength to continue, to cherish every victory, no matter how small.

As the podcast concludes, listeners are left with an overwhelming sense of hope and encouragement....

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E 45: How to find inner strength when faced with your new caregiver reality

 

Mary Wyatt was faced with huge adversity and a new normal  on 11/7/20 when her husband had a seizure and then she heard the words Grade 4 GBM which in layman's terms is an aggressive cancer that starts in the brain.   In my interview with Mary she shares her story, her challenges and ways she is dealing with the harsh reality of her husband’s cancer.  

I know you can relate to Mary’s story of trying to balance work and caring for you loved one as well as trying to work through your emotions and taking care of yourself. 

One more thing,  I had Mary fill out a questionnaire prior to the interview and wanted to share what she wrote when asked her the question:  

What have you learned about yourself as a caregiver?   
She wrote:  That I am a lot stronger than I ever gave myself credit for, that I was made with grit.  I am resilient, courageous and am driven with a heart so big that has passion to share my testimony so maybe just maybe it can help another young woman out there see she never had to go it alone.

In  the interview today  Mary has an amazing ability to communicate her story of true inspiration.   As you listen, we want you to reflect on:

 “How are you finding your inner strength?”  

 “ How are you asking for help?” and accepting it?

 “Who are you surrounding yourself with?” 

You can find Mary at
 https://www.facebook.com/MaryAWyattCertifiedHealthCoach

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