Welcome to the Caregiver Cup Community!

Whether you're a first-time visitor or a loyal listener, I’m so glad you’re here. I started the Caregiver Cup Podcast back in 2020 to share my journey and to help fellow caregivers navigate the challenging and often overwhelming season of caregiving. We know how demanding this role can be, especially when it feels like every moment is consumed by stress.

In this week’s episode, we’re diving deep into a topic that resonates with so many of us: Breaking the Cycle of Overwhelm. This cycle—where stress leads to more overwhelm, and overwhelm leads to more stress—can feel inescapable. But I want to assure you, there are ways to manage and even break free from this cycle.

Recognizing the Cycle of Overwhelm

Have you ever planned your day perfectly, only to have one unexpected event throw everything off balance? Maybe you had a plan to start your day with a peaceful walk, but then a phone call from the...

When you become a caregiver, your already busy life doubles or even triples in workload. Tasks multiply, from getting second opinions and calling insurance companies to rescheduling your appointments around your loved one's needs. The emotional strain can zap your energy, making even the simplest tasks feel monumental. How often have you laid in bed, unable to fall asleep or waking up at 1 AM, unable to return to rest?

Before you know it, you realize you have no time for yourself, and even if you did, you wouldn’t have the energy. Everyone says to put yourself first, but how do you do that? More importantly, how do you believe you can do it?

Today, let’s tackle self-care in a way that feels achievable and special. ‍

The Value of Just 15 Minutes:

As caregivers, we often feel that self-care is just another task on an already overflowing plate. But what if we reframe it as something manageable, like just 15 minutes? Studies show that short, frequent breaks...

Hey there, beautiful soul! Today, let's dive deep into a topic close to every caregiver's heart: finding your secret sauce to conquer those pesky negative thoughts and reclaim your joy. As someone who's been on this journey myself, I get it. It's not always sunshine and rainbows, but trust me, there's a way to sprinkle a little magic into each day.

You know those moments when you're feeling on top of the world? Take a second to celebrate those. What's working? What have you been doing differently? Maybe it's a heart-to-heart chat with a friend, a quiet moment of journaling, or simply basking in the warmth of the sun during a brisk walk. Whatever it is, it's your own special blend of joy boosters.

But let's be real, there's no one-size-fits-all solution here. Oh, how I wish we could just get a prescription for happiness! But alas, life doesn't work that way. Instead, we have to rely on our own intuition, listening closely to the whispers of our body and mind.

Think of it...

When Laureen Wysocki took on the role of caregiver for her husband Kevin, who was diagnosed with young-onset dementia, her life took a dramatic turn. It became a journey not just of love and loss, but of immense personal growth, self-discovery, and a deeper understanding of resilience in the face of adversity. This podcast episode provides an intimate glimpse into the life of an opera singer who balances her career with the demands of caregiving, and it is as multifaceted as the roles she performs on stage.

Laureen's narrative is a powerful one, a blend of candid vulnerability and inspiring strength. As she recounts the challenges she has faced, we see the reflection of countless other caregivers who are navigating similar paths. The importance of self-care is a central theme, emphasized through her commitment to practices like gratitude, journaling, and maintaining a support network. These tools not only help her cope but also ensure she remains a steadfast source of...

In today’s episode I want to share a recording of a Live session I did with The Caregiver Cup Community.   I shared an article I found in caregiver.com by Mary Damiano 

As you listen to this episode today, I want you to think about two things

1. What can you do to put yourself first - carving out just 30 minutes each day can make huge changes in your energy.  
2. What motivates you?  Not everyone is a runner.  Not everyone is a morning morning.  You need to find what works best for you to recharge.  So be open and listen to all the tips but then personalize it to your values and your current situation right now.  

Recharging your batteries is one of the most important ways to help your loved one.

R: Rest. One of the most important things a caregiver can do for the person they’re caring for is to take care of themselves. A caregiver who wears himself out, and keeps going 24/7 risks burnout.

E: Eat right. Take a cue from your...

Navigating the intricacies of caregiving for individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is no small feat. It's a journey that requires an abundance of empathy, patience, and resilience. This delicate subject is at the forefront of our latest podcast episode, where I take you through the personal odyssey as a caregiver to family members grappling with NPD.

The complexities of NPD stretch far beyond the superficial traits of vanity and arrogance. The disorder is deeply rooted in genetics, early childhood experiences, and societal influences. My candid narration delves into the draining effects of friendships marked by narcissism and draws insightful parallels between understanding dementia and NPD. This highlights the importance of recognizing the multifaceted nature of the disorder.

My experiences emphasize the emotional toll caregiving can take, particularly when the person being cared for exhibits manipulative tendencies and a lack of...

Diana Winkler is a singer songwriter and I'm an abuse advocate.  She uses music as one of my healing tools and facilitates Meaning The Soul healing groups.  She is also a podcaster of the Wound of the Faithful Podcast.

She is married to her husband, Brain for 11 years who struggles with severe ulcerative colitis.  Diana is very transparent about her own health struggles with memory loss too.  

In my interview, I ask Diana to share her everyday schedule.  She is figuring it out by juggling her schedule, pursuing her passions and finding time for herself.  

I ask Diana to unpack her caregiving journey.  She shares her spouse’s 10 year journey with ulcerative colitis, from the initial diagnosis,  remission and through the pandemic.  She talks about the stressors of his disease and how it impacts her as a caregiver.  

She shares her gratitude of both being able to work from home but also the stress there too.  ...

Each morning about 6:30, I put on my walking shoes and grab my ear buds for my 2-3 miles walk.  One particular thing this week got me.    I kept nodding my head and walking faster and faster.  My head was spinning when listening to a new podcast.   I couldn’t wait to get home to grab a piece of paper and write down my thoughts.  

I love podcasts that feed my soul with inspiration, self-help and self-development and ones that are just plain fun too.   Podcast listening is my jam when I am walking or working in my garden or getting ready in the morning.    

Ok… what was I listening to? I am trying to level up and be a better speaker.  It was my newest podcast that I recently added to favs.  My new mentor and speaking coach - The Heather Saeger show.  It was one from way back on Jan 6 where she interviewed Anna Nelson about Unlock a new level in your business using your superpower. ...

Lisa Allarid was faced with huge adversity and a new normal  in December of 2018 when her husband was diagnosed with Stage 4 Chronic Kidney Disease.  She's a mom of 4 and works in the finance industry. 

She had to learn about kidney disease, nutrition, and how the donor system works.  

Lisa also shares how she stopped taking care of herself, going out with friends and really hitting rock bottom before she realized the importance of her needs.  

You will find some amazing golden nuggets about half way through the interview when Lisa shares how she is embracing her new normal by knowing what type of caregiver she is., what her strengths are, and what her weaknesses are. 

As she is growing and figuring out how to be a better caregiver and most importantly a better person to herself, she is expressing what she needs.  She's a beautiful role model and teaching her children the true meaning of love and...

When my Dad passed in 2018, my Mom was left with all of Dad's belongings. Amidst the decisions of what to keep or give away, one precious gift stood out—his journals, over 40 years' worth, started in 1972. Evenings after sorting through belongings turned into shared moments of joy and tears as we read entries that captured a lifetime.

Inspired by Dad's dedication, I embarked on my own journaling journey. However, I soon faced challenges—finding time, understanding its importance, and staring at a blank page. My structured, disciplined nature clashed with the freeform approach.

Determined to unravel the benefits, I delved into the neuroscience of journaling. Structured journals became my allies, offering prompts that eased the process. Gratitude journaling emerged as a powerful tool, reshaping my mindset by focusing on positivity.

With a commitment to just five minutes daily, my journal became a sanctuary. Gratitude and wins intertwined, fostering a shift in my...